In our relationships with people, family or friends, who are not converted we sometimes have situations where a loved one has made choices in their lives that cause us and them heartbreak. When this happens we must deal with it spiritually by realizing that this situation is temporary and that the pain felt by both parties is going to be resolved through time. GODS saints know that this life is temporary and that what our unconverted loved ones do today will not be counted against them just as our past sins have not been counted against us. It is only that we were the first fruits in GODS plan to redeem humanity thus implying second fruits later on. All the heartbreak that is current will be forgiven and they will be converted having the Holy Spirit in the age to come. Therefore the current heartbreak should not be our focus but rather the future heart healing. GOD allows the unconverted to do what they want and that is sin. The saints no longer do what they formerly did but now must kill that old self to become a new creation in Jesus. We no longer have our own will that led to sin and death but live by the will of GOD who now controls our lives if we submit to HIM. Remember, not my will but your will be done. We are to be like Jesus Christ in total submission to his FATHER and then his FATHER becomes our FATHER. This same opportunity will be presented to those relatives and friends at a future time when GOD will wink at their sins, they will truly repent and be forgiven and receive HIS Holy Spirit. It will be a repeat of what happened to us but at a time after us. This should be our focus, our hope for our unconverted loved ones, not the current heartbreak of this age. We are to be the teachers of the currently unconverted of this current evil age. Therefore it is extremely important that we strive to make our calling and election sure so that we can be there for them in that future day. If we truly love, agape, our unconverted friends and loved ones then this should be our focus. We are unable to help them now other than to love and pray for them but if we are successful in our election then we will be given access to the power of our GOD that just as Jesus lives in us now they will live in Jesus and in us. This will be the fulfillment of Micah 4 and Isaiah 30:19,20,21 we will be their Elohim, their teachers. What GOD and Christ did for us now GOD, Christ and us will do for them. This requires patience and understanding but it gives hope to all concerned that John 3:16,17 is very true.
To all of you out there who are faced with heartbreak remember these things. Psalm 147:3 Isaiah 61:1 Isaiah 57:18,19 2 Corinthians 1:3,4 Psalm 34:18 Jeremiah 33:6 Isaiah 30:26 Hosea 6:1