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It’s My Way or the Highway!? 🛻
Gary Burnett -February 3, 2026 🚚
I have often wondered and grieved over the fact that so many people in every country of the world, once they get a license to drive a vehicle, will conduct their driving skills in such a way as to ignore the road rules, and engage in driving their vehicle in a manner that, not only endangers their own life, but also endangers or harms the lives of other road users. 🚗
Just look at your country’s road statistics!
And this in spite of every effort by road authorities to warn, inform, enforce and exemplify the consequences of bad conduct.
And this is not including the chance mishaps and mistakes being made by us all. 🚌
There seems to be so many parallels between how we use Our Roadways, and the way each human chooses to travel the Highway of Life. But just in this one area of our religious convictions let me explore these parallels for our edification.
When we start learning to drive, it is hoped, the driving instructor would emphasize the 3 C’s of safe driving habits.
Care
Consideration 🚜
Courtesy
Not all of us learn things from the same sources, the same teachers, the same rule books or at the same speed. But over time even our experiences should impress the value of these 3 things in our lives. In an ideal world! But we don’t live in an ideal world, do we?
Even so, care for those about us, consideration for theirs, and our, situations in life, and showing courtesy even when we think we are right, should make negotiating our way in life satisfying, steady and purposeful.
So, when we have the opportunity for dialogue with others over our religious beliefs, why are humans so belligerent?
The arguments for the Trinity doctrine or for a Unitarian understanding share the same base material of ancient records of Scripture. The same as road vehicles share basic principles of design and function. Just because I drive a family car built by General Motors Holden in Australia, doesn’t make my choice better than someone driving a Fiat in Italy, a scooter in Thailand, or a
Mack truck in USA.
We all share the same obligation to obey the road rules
and etiquette.
Some vehicles are better fit for purpose, I grant you, but that doesn’t give anyone a license to ignore or disobey what should be expected of everyone, no matter which country you are from.
It is easier to get along when we are all traveling in the same direction. Common ground in discussion keeps things congenial, smooth going. But debate about differing ideas and opinions will always occur in life. Indeed, this is how we have learnt about things that would otherwise have been covered up in superstition and mythology. And so, some of us wish to change lanes when
situations and circumstances call for it.
Does this give anyone the right to refuse another such a move?
Does this give anyone the right to insist on making that move?
Driving in my country expects anyone wishing to change direction to indicate this intention within suitable time and distance before making that change. This then gives the other road users the choice to allow them entry into their lane, or not, to show courtesy, or not, to consider the safety of others around them, and be prepared for unexpected consequences to avoid a crash (All road users
should be of the mind to avoid collisions). 🚔 🚑
The believer in Jesus from Nazareth, Palestine, also believes in the creator God, who Jesus called “his Father in heaven”. This believer also considers Jesus to be special, special in his coming into human history according to the records in the Hebrew Scriptures, special in his actions (using his Father’s power to heal people and perform other supernatural actions), special in his teaching (including the oppressed and marginalized persons in his society with love),
special in fulfilling the Father’s will, (going all the way to dying on a Roman cross), special in being resurrected to be alive again (appearing to his disciples and family members and as many as 500 at one time, according to Paul), special in his ascension into the sky (presumably then entering heaven to sit at the right hand side of God, his Father) special in sending the Holy Spirit that energized his fearful, grieving followers to missionary zeal and proclamation of
this Jesus being the King of God’s Kingdom.
All these “specialties” Trinitarians and Unitarians will agree upon.
To say “You can only understand these things about Jesus in one way” is to say, “You can only build a family car like a Mack truck!”
The faithful allegiance some have for the Trinity or Unitarian beliefs is like the allegiance shown by some between Ford or Holden cars here in Australia. I dare say other countries have similar rivalries. The arguments put forward for both ideas about God and Jesus and the Holy Spirit are very well researched, very well analyzed, very well supported with scripture references, and very well published, so that “me,” an ordinary person just wanting to get along with other people in an orderly, peaceful life and please our Father in heaven, does feel overwhelmed by the technical and emotive expressions of faith. Add to this the rhetoric that derides, downplays, criticizes and condemns the loyalty or preference for one idea over the other, and I am likely to go buy a Toyota as my next car!
Wouldn’t we have wanted to see a better outcome than when John Calvin finally did meet up with Michael Servetus?
Driving along the road in my Holden car and someone driving a Ford car passes me to get in front of me doesn’t make them a bad driver just because they are driving a Ford car. But if, in this action, that driver creates a dangerous circumstance risking the life and health of other road users, then they are going to be criticized, yes? Even so, that does not give me the right to get out of my car at the next stop and smash their rear window with an iron wrench! And then incite other drivers to come and smash up the rest of his car!
And then, there is the opportunity to be re-educated as a driver. 👮
For people who wish to enter a new profession of work (think of emergency service workers or machinery operators) there is the need for further education in the way they should know and follow driving rules, for safety and specialist reasons. Adult driver education improves upon what skills and techniques one thinks they knew from their past driving experiences. One can attend schools,or simply listen to, and observe, those already improving their driving attitudes
and actions. 👫
Jesus came along to teach us about our most precious possession- our relationship to our heavenly Father.
“I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through me”- John 14:6.
He has shown us the way to drive (live) our lives, reflecting God, our Father’s image; He has taught us the true knowledge and understanding about our relationship to God as our Father, and our responsibilities towards those around us; He demonstrated the real life as a Son of God, for us to follow his example closely.
I have spent 55 years of my life pondering and querying things to know ‘the truth’ about God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. In that time I have met, read about and listened to many, many other people doing the same thing. We have all had different journeys to follow. But what has been the important lesson for me is that CARE, CONSIDERATION & COURTESY will most likely see me home
safely.
Respect different opinions with careful acknowledgement, consider the evidence provided and then decide if you agree or disagree, and be prepared to agree to disagree, and then give others your courtesy for them to not follow you, as you might not wish to follow them.
Our heavenly Father wants us all to get home safe! 🌇